Abstract:
Compliments are a universal social phenomenon. If we use it exactly, we can shorten the distance of our communicator. In the process of cross-cultural communication, they play a role of greeting, expressing one's thanks congratulating and encouraging others, opening a conversation and decreasing conflicts etc. At the same time, owing to the different social systems and cultural backgrounds between the east and the west, such complications result in a cultural difference in the course of using compliments. To understand the difference can not only help one use compliments correctly, but also can avoid cultural conflicts in the intercultural communication. Probing the differences between Chinese and Western compliments in a cross-cultural perspective and analyzing the course of misunderstanding are the key to a successful cross-cultural communication. In cross-cultural communication, the Chinese have always been reserved, sticking to the principle of prudence and reticence, obeying the principle of self-control and carefulness when communicating, having a high degree of sensitivity toward other’s languages. By contrast, the Americans are outgoing. They are prone to express themselves and willing to use language to express their inner world. They also believe the creativity of language, emphasizing the outward extension of the individual. So only if we understand each nation’s cultural backgrounds can we have a good cross-cultural communication. Language and culture are inseparable, only do we strive to master the language as well as their cultural backgrounds can minimize the cross-cultural communication errors. This does not only aim at the compliment language, but also is equally important to speeches and behaviors.
Keywords: compliment; difference; response; misunderstanding; cross-cultural communication.
摘 要：
恭维语是一种普遍的社会现象, 作为文化交流的一部分,恰到好处的使用它能拉近交际双方的距离。在跨文化交际中 ,它们起着问候、鼓励、致谢、开启话题及缓解矛盾等影响，同时由于中西方在社会结构，英语论文网站，以及文化背景方面的不同，导致了恭维语在实施过程中的文化异同，了解其中的文化异同不仅有助于人们在跨文化交际中恰当的使用恭维语，英语毕业论文，而且还可以避免文化冲突，同时比较中西方恭维语在语言形式、应答、恭维目标几个方面的异同,指出跨文化交流中恭维和接受恭维造成误解的原因,关于跨文化交际具有重要意义。在跨文化交流中,中国人一向含蓄,奉行“慎言”“寡言”准则,在言语上自制而谨慎,对他人的语言又有高度的敏感性,相形之下,美国人则比较外向,惯于表达自己,也愿用语言表达内心世界。他们更相信语言的创造力,强调个人的外向延伸,要解决恭维语交流中出现误解这一问题,只有相互了解彼此之间的文化和文化背景。语言与文化是不可分的,只有努力掌握彼此之间的语言以及文化背景才能使我们在跨文化交流中尽量少出错误，这不仅对恭维语，对其它言语行为也是同样重要的。
关键词：恭维语；异同；应答；误解；跨文化交际
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