本文主要略论是在工作上每个伙伴的性格如何作用对方的成功的范文。文章主要从多方面采集数据进行略论解释并引出作者的观点进行举例论证
The article “For Couples, Success at Work is Affected by Partner’s Personality” on the website “SCIENTIFIC AMERICAN” mainly tells about how important each partner’s personality can affected each other’s success at work. A quite surprising new study shows that conscientiousness is of great acceptance for the partner having higher job satisfaction, promoting more often and ing higher wages over a four year period among these five personality traits: extraversion, agreeableness, conscientiousness, neuroticism and openness. Although some people think that romantic partners should be either sexually attractive or the person who have an agreeable personality, the fact shows people that there are a tremendous amount of benefits for a conscientious spouse. It seems that conscientious couples can provide significant support whether they work in or outside the home, and having consistent help around the house to enhance each other’s work life regardless of the gender. Moreover, conscientious couple can not only create conditions that make them success easier, they are also great role models to encourage greater reliability and productivity in the workplace as well as enhancing job performance.
The article “Calling It Sex When They Mean Love” on the website “SCIENTIFIC AMERICAN” mainly tells about how the so called “hookup culture” (uncommitted sexual encounter) affects young people and how they feel about this kind of phenomenon. The data shows that 51 percent of women and 42 percent of men said they openly discussed that possibility with their lover after hookup despite its supposedly casual nature. However, among 681 college-aged adults, in which 63percent of the men and 83percent of the women said they would prefer to be in a traditional romantic relationship instead of a sexual relationship without commitment. Even though sexuality is very seductive to both young men and women, in reality, during those sporadic encounters something more than simply sex is desired. Overall, Garcia believes that hookups tend to have a more positive than negative effect by improving one’s sense of well-being and level of satisfaction. Nevertheless, with string attached, the love will be lasted longer and more stable.
The reason why I choose these two articles is because it is related to the topic of human relationship and human sexuality. Compared to these two articles, they both tells people about the relationships between a couple. One of the differences is that the article “For Couples, Success at Work is affected by Partner’s Personality” mainly talks about couple’s personality affects each other in a great amount of way in a relationship. Even though some people consider that sexual appeal plays an important role in a relationship, the partner’s personality affect each other’s success at work in a tremendous amount of way. However, in the article “Calling It Sex When They Mean Love”, sex is quite crucial among young people, especially those college students. In this article, some data is listed that mainly tells people that even a survey once said that among 500 college students, in which 64 percent of women and 45 percent of men confessed that during their last hookup, they were actually hoping the encounter would lead to a steady relationship, in fact, 51 percent of women and 42 percent of men said they openly discussed that possibility with their lover after the hookup despite its supposedly casual nature. As far as I am concerned, no matter how casual a person is, all he/she wants is a steady relationship that can finally get married and live happily ever after.
In the article “For Couples, Success at Work is Affected by Partner’s Personality”, even though the whole article focus on the aspect of couple’s personality, it shows people that if one couple only has sex in their lives, they will not be improved nor truly have a happiness live. Thus, there is no doubt that sexuality plays a very important role in a couple’s live, if a couple want both their love and work balance well as well as they can be success, personality is even more crucial than the sex appeal. As for the article “Calling It Sex When They Mean Love”, it obviously has something to do with human sexuality. After reading this article, it turns out my instinct is right. 63 percent of the men and 83 percent of the women said they’d prefer to be in a traditional romantic relationship instead of a sexual relationship without commitment.
In the book “A Love Book for Couples: Building a Healthy Relationship” by Michael Lillibridge, it says: Couples often think that “falling in love” is enough, that this feeling of love will hold them together forever and through think and thin. In reality, most people have little knowledge about the makeup of this kind of relationship and what knowledge and skills are needed to maintain a satisfying relationship. If couples are to stay in love and be happy with each other, they must understand three important areas of relating to other. Take the first area for example. There are six aspects of couple relationships that need to be understood and experienced if a happy relationship is to be achieved, which are the feeling of love, interpersonal skills, sexual compatibility, interpersonal conflicts, and the emotional intimacy. As the article said, the personality can affect couple’s family and their work. Moreover, in the book “Relationship Advice for Women and Men: A Deep Love” it also conveys a concept that if people want their relationship be steady and happiness, they need to learn to love themselves. Only can they take care of themselves, they can love their partners in the right position for the right attitude.
Among the many difficulties parents encounter today, despite different social contexts, one certainly stands out: giving children an adequate preparation for adult life, particularly with regard to education in the true meaning of sexuality. There are many reasons for this difficulty and not all of them are new. In the past, even when the family did not provide specific sexual education, the general culture was permeated by respect for fundamental values and hence served to protect and maintain them. In the greater part of society, both in developed and developing countries, the decline of traditional models has left children deprived of consistent and positive guidance, while parents find themselves unprepared to provide adequate answers. This new context is made worse by what we observe: an eclipse of the truth about man which, among other things, exerts pressure to reduce sex to something commonplace. In this area, society and the mass media most of the time provide depersonalized, recreational and often pessimistic information. Moreover, this information does not take into account the different stages of formation and development of children and young people, and it is influenced by a distorted individualistic concept of freedom, in an ambience lacking the basic values of life, human love and the family. Thus, from these two articles that I have read, I have noticed that it is quite common that young people’s love is based on the sexuality at first in our society. Even though most women and men prefer the true love that can be communicated with each other’s heart, it is nearly impossible without sexuality.
When I first look at these two articles, I was a little bit uncomfortable, because that is the topic I seldom talk about. When I read the first article about sex and love, I have no idea that there are so many college students feels that they prefer to be in a traditional romantic relationship instead of a sexual relationship without commitment. Before I read this article, I have a stereo type thinking that most young couple love the sexual relationship because they think it is so exciting as well as do not need to be responsible to someone or to her family. But now this article has a great influence to me. The real romantic relationship is the communication between heart and heart. Although sexuality is important in a relationship, if one couple do not have the same value and the good personality that can affect each other in a good way, they will not be as happy as other great couples are. Romantic relationships can provide people with some of the most wonderful feelings they will ever experience. They can also be extremely confusing, make people feel paralyzed and helpless and bring people to their “emotional knees“. As for me, if I can create an arsenal of words to describe a loving relationship, then I can build a healthy environment where love can thrive. Thus, if I have to choose, I would love to use descriptive songs that showcase the positive aspects of a loving relationship, such as “I’ll make love to you” by Boyz II Men, “When a Man Loves a Woman” by Percy Sledge. As far as I am concerned, the sex appeal is not the only thing in a romantic relationship; people should care about each other and improve their personality in a good way as well as create something cozy and sweet.
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